From my diary!

Some random thoughts of my mind in different moments!

 ---

 Simple living is the new luxury!

***

Sometimes, we realize that 

after any try, life is not moving forward,

then it is good to move a step or two backward, 

and reach to a comfortable state!

***

Whatever be the path, 

how tedious it may be

 I was, am and will be the winner!

Because the target is set by me, 

I am the sole responsible person to achieve that

and I do work hard and harder to achieve it.

 ***

I just do not interested for business,

rather I believe on a sustainable business,

Therefore,

I believe on

 "work hard and Party Hard" 

However,

What kind of party, 

with whom and where 

and how you are making the party

 that matters a lot.

 It might create a positive memory, 

or else might be the cause of a negative memory for life time!

 And things will be too delayed to be realized!

***

Party, entertainment, dance..... and fun are always good,

and must be a part of life to have  a satisfactory life.

However, 

making party without alcohol is much more efficient 

and satisfactory than with alcohol.

Because it is easier to make party with alcohol and without effort, 

but without it, is not easy task, 

need to build self to enjoy the life and each moment  

***

Enjoyment with friends is an easier option, 

but does not last long, might leave with a feel of loneliness... 

However lone party and enjoyment is though difficult, 

is the best thing to train self and each day can be a party day😀

***

It is always safe and satisfactory at the ground state,

maintaining a proper energy level,

and with ritual practices of gratitude!

The state of excitation is for limited time and momentary happiness, 

does not last for long!

And in case want a longer time to stay there, 

it adds pain and repents.

***

A year just passed,

In spite of the pain in the whole body and mind,

Each of my days were passing with you,

thinking of you,

chatting and gossiping with you.

Indeed, a memorable and charming year it was with you,

filled with love,

 a path of inner growth, self analysis, calmness, soulfulness,

a sense of respect and gratitude! 

***

Sometimes, I feel your absence and feel like lost without you!

Do not know, how to manage it,

 but without communication also I get stressed, 

when you stay in stress!

 ***

Dear love,

I want to give you all the happiness of the world,

 for which I want to show you my happy moments, 

not the struggling phases of my life! 

But latter in our holiday trip, 

in some dusky moments, near the sea beach or island,

resting my head on your lap,

will share the pains those were crossed.

***


A tough day is not the day with hard work, but a day with ache in heart & mind!

***

 I am so grateful for the year 2021!

It gave me so many lessons, 

Taught me a lot, 

Reminded me of my originality, 

Showed me the path of failure & also the way to succeed, 

It breaks my heart again & again to teach me the lesson of Love!

Met me with the inspiring personalities,

Taught me the power of gratitude,

the power of giving & sacrificing, 

the power of mindfulness & manifestations,

the power of communication, 

the power of confidence, 

the feeling of negative balance in the bank account!

the feeling of emptiness!

the feeling of negative talks behind you, 

the feeling of calmness,

the feeling of debt!

the techniques of self healing,

the techniques to find the positivity within the negative situations,

the techniques of sincerity,

the power of reading,

the power of giving, helping and blessings to others,

the power of self love,

the power of  nutritional & balanced food,

the power of hygiene within & outside, both in body & mind!

the power of Love!

...

Love you so much 2021

Love you so much

  Love You!

***

 

 Sometimes we feel lost, looted......

but that is the right time for a great start!

When already lost, there is nothing more to loose,

when you are looted, there is nothing to worry to be looted more...

that agglomerates the dreariness to fight back,  

to jump to the struggle with a confident and daring mind ..

that fighting attitude to achieve your goal shows the path to reach there!

 

***

If you are unable to cross certain point in spite of multiple try, 

then, must change the strategy 

or take some time to develop self ! 

Without continuous learning, practice, self-improvement,

it is difficult to go beyond and doing the impossible things possible!

***

Ask again and again to your heart!

And do what your heart says... 

Do not get diverted by the external forces!

***

 Being with no one is better than being with the wrong one. 

Sometimes those who fly solo have the strongest wings. 

***

 Positive thoughts attracts positive energy, 

attracts good people, 

and all positive things happen. 

***

If Villamart is successful, it will serve millions of farmers across the country!

Else, India will find a great politician! 

***

Love has the power to make you or to break you!

Need to concentrate the correct point! 

***

 Life becomes easy and comfortable when I am with.

*love u universe*

***

 Remember, there are as many as maps of reality as people in the world. 

Make your map the most beneficial for yourself and respect other people's maps, 

without forcing them to use yours!

Everyone is right according to their own map of the world!

-Book: CKT- Practical guide 

***

Be professional, 
leave aside the emotions and personal things.
 
***
 Do not die for the people committed for others, 
Its a wastage of your time only, 
And adds pain!
Instead learn to control your emotion 
and focus on your goal! 
Tomorrow, lots of people will be there to chase you!
***

86400 seconds  made a day!

Even a second less, will incomplete a day!

Each second has a value, has a meaning!

Learn to utilize each of the seconds to make a day effective!

***

 

Philosophically World is a relative word. 

It means different for different people! 

Sometimes, you feel blind, feel missing, 

feel incomplete, unable to concentrate in work....

without the world you mean!

***

Life is like a puzzle, set by God!

Do not know what will set where!

Those who are meant for you, 

inspire you, 

become your motivation, 

change you significantly, 

become the secret sauce of your success!

do not go away irrespective of the situation!

However, those who are not yours, 

they do not stay with you whatever care you take! 

So be positive and optimistic with an accepting mindset,

 whatever situation you face on the track!

 *** 

When you work with the people,

think of the benefits of the people,

you have to make yourself like them, live like them, talk like them, 

to feel their pain and also to convince them easily!

But, not to do it for long, till it degrades you,

degrades your value, your reputation,

because people will think as if you are same like them!

They will not understand your core value

***

To grow in a positive way in the life, must have to improve yourself.

But before improving the self, need to clean the inner dirtiness.

In 1st phase of 108 days;

I focused on the inner cleanliness, tried to remove the impurity that restrict me, 

harm me, hamper the personality sometime, obstruct to have a glowing & confident face sometime! 

It is 108 days of self designed restriction module comprises of controlling mind, body, food, drink, tongue, eye, nose etc.

However, I was not aware of this tough period it would be 

and also not believable that it would be a live exercise run by God!

At latter part of this period, I faced severely difficult & unexpected situation, 

but with patience all got over one by one! That was kind of miracle! 

I am in the last few days of that phase of 108 days.. 

expecting to have new challenges and learning from God!

But at the end, I am expecting to be clean, clear & strong 

to start the next phase of self improving and growth!

 ***

 108 days of self-curing / self-cleaning: 

I left my occasional drinking habit as I felt it has a broader negative impact on personality. 

But might b too occasional with a closed one,

 in future family!

***

During the 108 days of self cleaning, I crossed multiple training program and that includes a 5days Million$Morning program, that made me easier to getup early and boost the energy of the day. It is not only adding the extra time to the day, but also adds confidence while getting up in the divine moment, 2 hrs before 95% people get up! Moreover, the utilization of these moments are more important to utilize it in the optimum level.

***

Million Dollar Morning

  • Highest Energy Wins
  • 4D lifestyle: Health, Mind, Relationships, Finances
  • Clarity test (Do want/ Do not want)
  • Wake up to your MDM: SMARTE: (Silence (5), Mind movie (5), Affirmation (2), Reading (10), Thank you, Exercise)
  • Operate from your own GPS: Mind-- Emotion-- Action 
  • Shutdown Gremlin mindset
  • Invest in mentoring

 

 

  •  

 

Everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it." - Andy Rooney

However, the energy and happiness is multi folded if you are climbing with the right set of people! 

***

Do not know what I have lost and gained in my life!

However, each step has been counted and coming out as a positive vive somewhere sooner or latter!

 ***

Multiple times, I tried... but each time failed to think a life without you!

 Not sure if achievable a portion of my dream without you! 

But I am sure, with you I can do everything.. not only my wish .. but also fulfill all your wishes...  

            -anonymous 

***

Steam water hurts more than the boiled water, though both are at the same temperature i.e.100C

Its because of its heat content within the steam or the Enthalpy.

Similarly, experience matters a lot in any profession. 

Experience is the enthalpy of real life!

***

 

Days are there, while u feel extremely awesome, some days go extremely bad .. and ..

some days  r there that goes in between..

But need to live each day.. 

accept the pain on the bad days..

learn to manage the happiness on the good days as well..

all these together takes u to a longer path...

***

Heart cries in listening few names/ work/moments.

Heart gets excited too in some cases..

need to make a grading of all these ..

try to remove all these wastes from life ..

whether it is personal or professional..

do spend more where u find happiness..

where u find the energy to move..

that positive vibe will take u further .. 

***

In TSEC final day speech at IIM Calcutta,

 the chief guest has a nice line,

"choose the right life partner, if u r in startup, 

that will give 50% success itself.

Instead if u choose the wrong one,

 failing percentage is more"

It is so true... 

its most imp to choose the right one .. 

where u find the beats of ur heart.. 

the sensation ..

the vibe .. 

whom u can share each of ur feelings..

can believe without a second thought..

with whom u can spend days & nights without any fear..

Even a feeling of togetherness takes more steps forward..

obviously the real time togetherness creates history of such kind of soulmate!

***


If any day I regret of my past days and want to delete that phase, 

it was my marriage..in early days..with the decision of parents & relatives.. 

with a compulsion of caste and boundaries!

obviously I want to delete it from my life...


***


If any one ask me on a single tips; 

I would love to say, 

"Do not be rush in finding the life partner, do not get forced by externals..

 instead, wait till u meet the right person, where heart will beat...

wait for a matching signal and if find the resonance, put all your energy!

Shape your life... build your own world...

 You will find the happiness in a small cottage... in a building.. 

in a palace.. in the sea shore.. in the jungle.. in a desert also!

Happiness is there in flying together or getting a dive together !

***

 I have visited different places in India, Malaysia and too in USA...

However, still unable to find the real happiness...

however, uploading a pic in social media and gathering the likes are temporary happiness!

***

Spending a day with the loved one creates thousands of memory.

Not possible to find it everywhere! 

***

Unexpected & surprise bday celebration creates memories! 

 ***

Lifetime memories:

 IITKgp life with leadership role, hostel issues, election... 

USA:1st week and resignation memories 

Ravenshaw days: Election fight & hostel issues, campus selection 

JU days: Holi in campus, campus selection

One year gap, work in land, poem writing & airforce selection 

***